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Tracy,
Where do you live in Texas?
Has he had some bloodwork done? Maybe if your son
had positive viral titers, an infectious disease specialist
might be willing to cooperate. Or an immunologist.
I completely understand your financial stress. I know that
many people would be willing to accumulate an unmanage-
able level of debt in this situation. But, as parents,
we have had to recognize that we are preparing
for a different kind of future than most of our friends. We
have had to accept that we need to prepare for
the possibility of a child who may or may not be able to
financially support himself during his adulthood. It does
no good to leave him with a legacy of debt, rather
than to try to arrange for his financial needs to be met,
if he is unable to do that for himself. We can't do that
if we are continually incurring debt. We do the best we
can to balance the present and the future. It's difficult...
and I understand your reluctance.